When You’re Not The “Fun” Friend

Picture this. It's a random Tuesday afternoon, and you get a text, a call, or even an online message from a friend, and they tell you about the bad things that are going on in their life. You do what you've always done, you be there for them. You comfort them, you talk to them, [...]

Happy Holidays and Happy New Year

We’re bringing in 2026, I see. I, frankly, am over 2025. A terrible year for many people, including myself. However, I have learned so much about life and myself in general that I can carry over into the new year the lessons I have learned. I plan to, rather. I want to desperately get back [...]

I Know Now Why I Left That Space In My Youth

I couldn't understand why posts on Sonic Twitter left me enraged and exhausted, but now I know. As an older fandom adult with some sense, I am one who just wants to enjoy the fanart, the minor to moderate obsession with characters, fanfiction, and general fun discussions. I don't get that on Sonic Twitter. I [...]

The Art of Letting Go

It is hard for me to let something or someone go. I am a Taurus after all. I like to hold on to the thought of things becoming better, becoming good. When the truth is in my face, I squirm, trying to find ways to deny the raging current in front of me. Change. I [...]

August

My bad, everyone. I'm sorry for not being online as much. Life has been lifeing. I have been between days, half asleep, half awake. Tired, exhausted even. I've been stressed about life. I have been dealing with domestic violence via mental illness from my family. A death in the family, well, an extended family. It's [...]